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Speaking of open ended art, I’ve been pretty frustrated  at the complete lack of open endedness or ANY artisitc self expression at Kidlet’s school.  At least in my son’s class.  I’m not sure if that’s standard, or just his teacher.  She’s been teaching 20 some odd years, but she taught second grade until last year.   Last year she did a couple hours in the K classrooms a day.  This year is the first that she has been a full time K teacher.  So I wonder if she is pushing them because she doesn’t have realistic expectations of what 5 and 6 year olds can produce or if she is just that rigid. 

I’ve seen my son’s K teacher correct kids even during simple art projects, encouraging them to do it “right”.  It’s been a real struggle for me to watch, as (especially in art) I’ve always encouraged him to express it as he sees it, that things don’t have to look a certain way, etc. 

For instance, they were making pumpkins, cutting features from pages with multiple choices of eyes, nose, etc to glue down on thier pumpkin bases, and she was really riding them to cut out the pieces so no white would show on the edges, because the white was “wrong”.  It was “wrong” if the nose ended up any place except centered under the eyes, etc.  When she was asking them to write thier names on it, she says “what would happen if you wrote your name in big letters across the top?  that’s right, it would ruin it.  So write your name in small letters at the very bottom,” and so on.  Heck, kidlet might actually carve his name across a real pumpkin (assuming he could carve at all); what’s so bad about putting it across his pumpkins forehead?

I can understand wanting kids to get letters/numbers/other academic things “correct” but in art?

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean to rag on her, because in so many other ways, she is a terrific teacher.  She’s been just wonderful working with us, helping kidlet overcome his behavioral challenges (he is high energy, and struggles with transition times, and has had a few major meltdowns).  She does seem to have high expectations for the kids, and I actually think that’s been good for the most part.  The kids are stepping up to meet those expectations; thier work really has improved dramatically for as little time as she has had with them so far.

I just wonder if I am being oversensitive, and if the push to do things correctly even in art is something they need at this age, or if she is stifling thier creativity and if I should speak to her or not about it.


The theme for this week’s Open Ended Art project was simply “black and white”.  Once again I wanted to go with the spirit of the challenge and provide only materials to him, without any specific project in mind, and without assisting or correcting in any way.  He is old enough that it works.  When he was younger I think he would have been at a loss on his own like that.

We started out upstairs in my office / the playroom and he was asking to “make a project”.  I said of course and hey, do you think we could make something cool if we only used black and white? and he said yes we can!  He started rummaging (my scrapbook stuff that isn’t packed up is all over the place), dug out some buttons and some patterned paper.  He asked for scissors and glue.  Then he went to work.

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SEE, this is the dipped in dye thing I was talking about when I was complaining about my camera the other day.  Oh Honey, if you are reading this, I need a new camera!  All the in progress shots ended up like that or worse.  At least one of the finished pictures came out!

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Once he had everything glued down the way he wanted, we set it aside to dry, but he very earnestly informed me that it wasn’t finished and he needed to “draw in the lines” when the glue was dry.  He had a very clear vision, apparently!

What is it?  It’s a “jungle at night” of course.  He even spelled out “jungle” with scrapbooking stickers all on his own!

I really have enjoyed these open ended art projects.  If you haven’t tried one with your kids, I highly recommend it!   The schedule posted at Mommies Wise Little Bookworms looks like:

  • Oct 21-27: Black and White:Glitter, Chalk, Paint anything goes
  • Oct 28-Nov 3: Pumpkins: Real, Collage anything goes
  • Nov 4- 10: Henri Matisse Collage (more in this in a week or so)
  • Nov11-17: Feather
  • Nov 18-24: Corn
  • Nov 25- Dec 1: NON Open Art: lets see those Turkeys!

So the other day I stayed after I volunteered in kidlets classroom long enough to see him go to lunch.  Boy, he gives his lunch a beating. He swings his bag around, slams it down. It spends as much time upside down as it does right side up.  Because I send his bento in a standard kids insulated lunch pail, when he carries it by the handle the bento is on it’s side. Knowing this, I always orient the box so that when he carries the pail the heavier / sturdier foods will be on the bottom. It’s normally held in place by the ice pack, water bottle and his dressing container so there isn’t much rattling around.  I considered a larger, boxier pail that had a shoulder strap that would keep the bento right side down during transport, but seeing how he flings it all over, I suspect that would be worse since there would be rattling around room.

 

I’d thought that Thursday’s lunch was well and tightly packed. Aside from a couple of sweet potato leaves that I left on top to look pretty (and those moving around a little shouldn’t matter I figured), everything was wedged in. The cheese was held down by the lid, the veggies underneath strong enough to take that pressure.

 

When he opened his lunch though, everything was shifted. The raspberries were smushed a bit. The acorn sandwich didn’t quite look like an acorn.  Everything was still mostly in place and everything was edible, but it wasn’t nearly as pretty as when I packed it.  This didn’t have any loose small items in a cup (like corn or peas) but I suspect they would have been all over the place if it had.

 

It makes me wonder about some of the lunches I see on flickr, especially the laptop lunches. The foods might not mix together because of the separate containers, but you just know each container will be all jumbled because while all the containers are tightly packed, the food in each one usually isn’t. Some of them look nice in the photo, but you know there is no way it’s going to look the same at lunchtime.  My kid wasn’t the only one giving his lunch the orbital treatment; his case is hardly unique.

 

I’m going to have to be double sure that everything is anchored down, especially when I do a cheese picture (usually I stick everything together with whipped cream cheese).


Because of the kidlet’s early history (he is adopted, was badly neglected the first six months of his life, and was very delayed), we did our own version of homeschooling from the time he was very little.  At first we worked with an early head start program; after the adoption was final we didn’t qualify for that (too much income), so we just worked at home at improving the skills and developing new skills.

When he entered the preschool age, we created an “Alphabet Book” using a large 3 ring binder, dividers and those plastic page protector things that you can slip your standard size paper into.  In that we collected his preschool work that was alphabet driven, as well as the projects that we continued to do at home to enrich him academically.

One of the projects we did for our letter of the week was a picture collage.  I’ve collected pictures from magazines, snail mail ads, old books that were too torn up to keep around, clip art I’ve printed, stickers, etc.  I keep them in a large manilla envellope (which I admit isn’t the best solution.  I keep thinking I need to get an expandable file thing or something so I can sort them better, but alas, this hasn’t happened).  Each week I’d go through and pick out a number of words that begin with the correct sound along with a few that didn’t.  Then I’d have the kidlet try and find pictures that begin with the letter of the week and glue them down onto a piece of paper for his letter book.

Letter Sound Collage

As he got older and better at it, I’d throw in some tricky ones (like putting a picture of some eyes in with the “I” words that week, for instance).  We also would go back to older ones and make sure he remembered what letter the collage was showing. 

As we finished them up, and he is easily identifying letters by sound, I’d have him select one picture from a collage page, draw his own version, and then try and write out the word, sounding out the letters.

I’m *really* glad that this is something that we focused on.  I am amazed at how many children in his Kindergarten class can receite the alphabet, but have no idea what sounds letters make.  Since they are focusing on “Kid Writing” – where the child writes words without adult assistance, using the letters that they hear in the word (ie, school gets written a lot like “skool” or “skol”), not knowing those sounds really puts those children at a disadvantage, as they have to learn that before they can develop thier writing and spelling skills.

This post is linked to Kid Friendly Friday at I Blame my Mother.


Today is an inservice day in our school district, so no school.  Probably no bento either.  I have a question for you moms out there though … how much does your child eat for a snack when they get home from school?

The kidlet has breakfast around 7am.  I *try* to give him a decent breakfast, preferably something with some protein and whole grains so it will stick around a little better and not just cereal, although that happens sometimes by his choice or dictated because we overslept or the baby is needy.  They have morning snack at 9:30, which is usually quite small; what I would consider a normal snack for him.  A small handful of pretzels, half an apple, or a half cup of trail mix — that kind of thing.  But when he gets home from school around 2:30, the kid is just Ravenous.

Yesterday he ended up eating: hard boiled egg, half a carrot with ranch, small dish of blackberry applessuce with a tablespoon of dried cranberries, 6 lil smokies, and 4 mini muffins (really mini, like 1″ wide).  He started with the egg, carrots and applesauce, and kept asking for more.

Less than 2 hours later he was asking about dinner.  I’m boggled by how much he is putting away.


I decided to participate (or rather, have the kidlet participate!) in the Open-Ended Art Projects posted over at Growing and Learning by Leaps and Bounds.  This week the theme is Fall Colors: Red, Yellow, Orange and Brown. [Apparently the creator of that site has elected to delete thier blog.  This was sudden, as they had posted open ended art for the rest of the month, and gave no indication it was coming]

While he normally has unlimited access to stickers, papers, drawing and coloring materials in his art cart, any thing else I usually have to dig out.  (The art cart is against a wall and its not that easy to turn it around in the corner I have it wedged in.)  We do a lot of projects, but anything that requires the mixed media / collage / messy stuff usually comes out with a purpose; more a guided art project. 

 So today I took a bag and wandered around the house raiding the art cart, the supplies closet, and my scrapbooking stuff to find a good assortment of items in the fall colors and then took the bag to the table and set it down and told him there’s a project on the table for him to do.  No other instructions.  I did put out some generic supplies — glue, glue stick, scissors, brushes and tape.

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He started pulling things out, one at a time, examining each thing, especially if it was something he hasn’t used much or recently.

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Everything dumped out, its time to start assembling!  Those are very sharp scissors he is using.  His child scissors would not cut the felt so he asked for help.  I got the super sharp bumblebees out and let him use them with cautions and close supervision.  He did just fine though.

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The final product!  What is it?  “A scuplture collage for mommy”, or so he says!  Everything else went back into the bag for another day.  He has his eye on a spool of ribbon and says he wants to make shapes with the cookie cutters, but “not until another day.”  I’ll leave the bag handy this week and see if he digs in and makes anything else.  I think he really enjoyed the freedom of just doing whatever he wants


The other day while I was volunteering in the kidlet’s classroom, I noticed that another child used the exact same AM snack container as we did.  Since they have snack outside right before recess, and the containers get dumped into a basket to be carried back inside, I figured we could end up getting the wrong container pretty easily.  What to do?  Well, I suppose that we could have put our name on ours with a sharpee, but whats the fun in that?!

Instead, I pulled out some opaque paint pens and let the kidlet go to town. 

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We had some stencils as well, and he started to use those, but then decided to color over everything in an abstract rainbow pattern.

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He wanted to do more, so we personalized one of his boxes I use for his bento lunches as well as some of the small tupperware containers that I use for ranch dip.

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Paint pens are great for personalizing anything plastic.  We’ve also done his car carriers, lego bins, craft boxes, and toy containers.


Thank yous to Foodie Footsteps for the Over the Top Award! It’s always nice to get a shout out from a site that you enjoy yourself!

 

 

 

The rules of this award are to: answer the questions with only one worded answers (those are below)- thank the blogger who gave it to you over and over and over (that’s exaggerated a bit) :)- pass it on to 6 of your favorite blogs.  I hereby grant this award to:

 

Avie’s Bento

Bunches and Bits

Dragon Musings

Finding Joy in my Kitchen

iCreate

Zonnah’s Addictions

 

Now the questions:  (wow, one word answers are hard!)

 

1. Where is your cell phone? … charging

2. Your hair? … thin
3. Your mother? … wonderful

4. Your father? … MIA

5. Your favorite food? … Hot and Sour Soup

6. Your dream last night? … none
7. Your favorite drink? … Pepsi (evil, evil Pepsi)

8. Your dream/goal? … Raising happy, healthy kids

9. What room are you in? … Playroom
10. Your hobby?… Bento and Scrapbooking

11. Your fear?… New Places

12. Where do you want to be in 6 years?… right where I am

13. Where were you last night?…Home

14. Something you aren’t?… skinny
15. Muffins?… Corn

16. Wish list item?…  Oven (mine is on the fritz and unreliable!)
17. Where did you grow up? … Pacific NW

18. Last thing you did? … fed the baby

19. What are you wearing? … flannel (and the baby ;))

20. Your TV? … DVR-ing

21. Your pets?…American Eskimo

22. Your friends?… few

23. Your life? … hectic

24. Your mood? … mellow

25. Missing someone? … JD

26. Vehicle? …Hybrid

27. Something you’re not wearing?… socks

28. Your favorite store? … Barnes and Noble

29. Your favorite color?… Green

30. When was the last time you laughed? … today

31. Last time you cried? … C-section (spinal thing the worst pain ever.  EVER)

32. Your best friend? … DH
33. One place that I go over and over? … Babies R Us
34. One person who emails me regularly?… mom

35. Favorite place to eat? … home


So bento-ing and my attempts to be involved at the school may have gotten me into trouble!  Each year, the schools foundation holds an auction to raise money to help keep positions in the school that the state isn’t able to maintain anymore.  Although a public school, the neighborhood is fairly affluent (we’re kind of the oddball family here; we couldn’t normally afford where we live, long story), and has very involved parents.  Apparently they raise a fair bit of money.  Even after the cut that is required to go to the state to help less-well community supported schools, the auction money pays for the PE teacher (can you beleive that many portland public schools just have NO PE at all?  I was shocked!) and for the music teacher and part of another normal staffing position, as well as some other stuff.  They do so well that the school has been able to eliminate all the cheesy wrapping paper and greeting card type sales.

Anyway, one of the things they sell at auction are classroom art projects.  These aren’t your garden variety projects Kindergarten fingerprints turned into bugs on a terra cotta pot.  For instance, last year a kindergarten class covered a donated birdbath with ceramic tiles, that they had mosaic’d in patterns in smaller broken tiles.  Apparently it sold very well.  The various classroom projects go for several hundred to several thousand dollars. So on my volunteer interest form, I guess I indicated that I was willing to help with my son’s classroom art project.  And I am.  But the teacher seems to think – based ENTIRELY on my “creative and artistic lunches” – that I’m some amazing artist person who has a strong idea of what the classroom project should be and am taking the lead on it, and I don’t know what else.  I had two different parents come up to me at the back to school event on Thursday, opening with something about me being artistic and running the classroom art project.

Yikes.  I’m not that person.  I’d like to think I’m creative, but I am a bit of a dabbler.  I do a little of this and a little of that.  I don’t have a strong talent for any particular genre, so I don’t give over a big time committment to any of them.  Besides, I rather like being a dabbler.  So, I’m feeling a little overwhelmed.

PLUS!  I’ve committed to sharing the responsibility of “head parent” in my son’s class, involvement in the PTA, expressed interest in the green team, and it looks like I may end up volunteering for the parent driven art literacy program, as we currently have no parent in kidlet’s class signed up, and without a parent, that class just doesn’t get the material.

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This would have been a handful without a baby on the hip.  I have a feeling its going to be a busy year 😉


Welcome to Kid Friendly Friday, with Mr. Linky hosted over at I Blame my Mother.

I’m not much of a baker.  It’s generally too much work and requires too much preciseness for me to really enjoy it, ESPECIALLY with the kidlet.   Getting exactly one cup of this and 25g of that and 2 teaspoons of this other thing is hard enough for me.  Add the kidlet in — some ingredient ends up on the counter, floor, shirt, anywhere but the bowl.  This recipe has few ingredients and seemed very forgiving.  These cookies are very easy — even young children can help.  The dough is mixed and kneaded in a zip top bag.  After a brief chill, you can shape and bake.

After we made these I realized that I should have taken “in process” shots with the kidlet, but I didn’t, so words will have to suffice today!

I started with the pancake mix cookie dough post over and Anna the Red’s bento site.  I changed the recipe a little bit.  I used a high fiber oat-bran pancake mix and I substituted one tablespoon of that for ground flax seed. I also added an extra teaspoon of sugar to make them just a little sweeter and added a touch of cinnamon.  This makes a crisp cookie; good for dunking!

Pancake Mix Kawaii Cookies

3 T. unsalted Butter

2 tsp. Sugar

1 Cup minus 1 T. Oat Bran Pancake Mix (ie, 15. T instead of 16 T.)

1 T. ground Flax

Sprinkle of Cinnamon

1 T. Milk or Water

Candy decorations, if desired

Preheat oven to 350F.  Place the butter in a zip top bag, seal it and let your kidlet squish it until soft.  Open and add the sugar, and knead again to mix.  Add the pancake mix, flax and cinnamon and squash it around really good.  Pour in the milk (or water) and knead a final time to finish the dough.  It’s usable now, but pretty sticky.  If your little one has any patience, I’d refrigerate a little bit to make the dough easier to handle and not gum up your fingers.  Roll and shape the dough any way you want – I don’t think it will roll like a sugar cookie with a rolling pin to be cut; you need to do it by hand, which makes this really fun for the kids.  We just rolled a small ball in our hands, flattened for the face, then made even smaller balls for snouts, ears, etc.  Decorate if desired.  Depending on thickness, bake for 10-12 minutes.

The really great thing about this dough is that it doesn’t spread out or puff up very much.  So when you sculpt a cookie, it retains most of its details.  As you can see from the pig cookie, even the little holes I made in his snout remain visible after baking, as do his ears.