The Mom I Want to Be

Babies thrive on routine.  Knowing what to expect next is reassuring, and you can help baby associate daily rituals with song cues.  Playing a favorite selection each time you bathe at night, for example, will signal to baby that it’s time to wind down and transition into getting ready for bed.   Pour through your cd collection to select the right tracks for playtime, meal time or quiet cuddle time

 

 

Choose a dimly lit area of your house that is free of distractions to feed your newborn.  Shut out the stresses of your day and bask in this special bonding time: stroke baby’s face, talk about your day together, play a soothing CD and enjoy cradling your little one.

 

 

Infant massage is said to promote restful sleep, heighten self-assurance, promote weight gain, aid in digestion, and stimulate neural connections to boost brain development and intelligence.  Massage is also a fun and relaxing way to bond with baby, develop trust, and familiarize her with her own body. 

 

After bath time or before bedtime, give baby a calming massage using only very gentle pressure with baby oil or lotion.  Massage her in a warm, dimly lit room that’s free of distractions.  Play the same music at each massage session.  Alternatively, you could sing your own lullaby as you massage baby.

 

 

When babies get fussy or cranky, a change of scenery can work wonders.  Hang wind chimes from a tree in your back yard.  Take baby outside to listen to the notes and touch the chimes.  This simple distraction can calm his nerves and let you both enjoy a tranquil stroll outdoors.

 

 

Set up a bird feeder just outside your window so that your baby can enjoy the magical sights and sounds of your back yard birds.   Use books such as What does violet see: birds as a springboard to teach fascinating facts about birds.