The Mom I Want to Be

 

When you can answer “yes” to most of these questions, it’s time to start.

 

• Can your child follow directions?

• Does he understand words like “wet” and “dry” and distinguish between the two? How about “toilet” or “potty”? Does he recognize words for urinating or defecating?

• Can she tell you where to find the toilet in your house?

• Is he in a stage where he wants to please you?

• Does she stay dry for 3-4 hours at a time? Are her bowel movements regular?            

• Can he recognize when he has to use the bathroom?

• Is she itching for independence?

• Does he dislike having a dirty diaper?

• Does she imitate you when you use the bathroom?

• Does he want to wear underwear?

• Has she expressed an interest in using the toilet?

• Is it a relatively stable time in your family life? The stress brought on by big changes (such as a new baby or move to new house) can spell setbacks so it’s better to wait until he feels comfortable and secure.