{"id":980,"date":"2009-11-15T18:30:26","date_gmt":"2009-11-16T01:30:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=980"},"modified":"2009-11-27T16:23:20","modified_gmt":"2009-11-27T23:23:20","slug":"making-chores-less-of-a-chore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=980","title":{"rendered":"Time for Chores"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Can your 2 year old handle helping out around the house? You bet! See our age-by-age guide.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Chores are an integral part of your child’s development. They help him learn to take care of himself and gain a sense of duty. As he grows, household tasks help him practice responsibility and are essential for handling future school assignments. They underscore his presence and importance as a contributing member of your family (which is why most experts don’t recommend tying an allowance to chores; they are simply a responsibility that everyone shares).<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

So don’t hesitate to get him busy! Think of his jobs in three ways: personal chores<\/strong> are tasks he should do so he can learn to take care of himself, household chores<\/strong> are duties he should take on as a functioning member of the family, and chores to do together<\/strong> are activities that help him learn a skill while keeping you company.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Start with one or two personal tasks and one household duty per day. Always show your child exactly how a job should be done, and take the time to practice with her. Post a reminder list (use pictures for pre-readers.) Soon these duties will be routine, and then you can begin to gauge how much your child can do to help; subsequently, you can give her more responsibility.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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<\/a>Ages 2 to 3<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n


\nPersonal chores:<\/strong> <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Choose clothes<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Get dressed<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Put toys away<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Stack or shelve books<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


\nHousehold chores: <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Feed the family pet<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Be a “gofer”: Fetch (safe, lightweight) items from another room<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


\nChores to do together: <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Dust<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Wipe countertops and tables<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Set the table<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Cook (For example, she can dump ingredients into a bowl.)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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<\/a>Ages 4 to 5<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n


\nPersonal chores:<\/strong>
\nEverything a younger child can do, plus: <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Put worn clothing in the laundry hamper<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Put clean clothes away in drawers<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Make the bed<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


\nHousehold chores: <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Bring in the mail\/newspaper<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Fix a bowl of cereal<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Clear the table<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Unload utensils (except knives) from the dishwasher<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Sweep the floor with a child-sized broom<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Empty small garbage cans<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


\nChores to do together: <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Gardening<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Water plants<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Separate recyclables<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Sort laundry (clean or dirty!)<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n


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Making Chores Less of a Chore<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Hiring a little helper is the first step. Try these ideas for making household chores fun for both of you:<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Turn on the music.<\/strong> When you clean, play upbeat music \u00e2\u20ac\u201d loudly! Hand your child a feather duster while you clean the windows. Say, “Let’s see if you can finish dusting the coffee table by the end of this song.” Take dancing breaks every now and then.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Make it a contest.<\/strong> Every morning, see who can get the newspaper first. After a few mornings, let your child “win” and tell him, “You’re so quick, I want you to be in charge of getting the newspaper every day.” Knowing that he is the best at a particular task will give him a sense of importance. <\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Play the part.<\/strong> Before the first time you teach your child how to clear the table, take him to a restaurant and point out the waiters. Then at your next meal at home, show him how he can be his own waiter by clearing his plate and taking it to the sink. Tell him that since you were the waiter who brought the food to the table, he gets to be the waiter that cleans up.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00e2\u20ac\u00a2\u00c2\u00a0Reward him once in awhile.<\/strong> When your child does a good job with a new chore, don’t be afraid to make it known that his help is appreciated. If he has neatly organized his toys after playing with them every day for an entire week, treat him to a new small toy. If he has unloaded the utensils from the dishwasher without you asking, let him pick his favorite dessert after dinner.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c2\u00a0 \u00c2\u00a0 Can your 2 year old handle helping out around the house? You bet! See our age-by-age guide. \u00c2\u00a0 Chores are an integral part of your child’s development. They help him learn to take care of himself and gain a sense of duty. As he grows, household tasks help him practice responsibility and are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[47,8,16,15,12],"tags":[245,207,409],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/980"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=980"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/980\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2461,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/980\/revisions\/2461"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=980"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=980"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=980"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}