{"id":853,"date":"2008-01-27T09:31:56","date_gmt":"2008-01-27T16:31:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=853"},"modified":"2009-10-18T09:33:09","modified_gmt":"2009-10-18T16:33:09","slug":"be-good-to-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=853","title":{"rendered":"Be Good to Yourself!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"margin: 12pt 0in 3pt;\"><\/h1>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">You can wash your hands and take your multivitamin every day, but that&#8217;s not always enough to keep your body and mind humming. What can make a difference:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">1. Follow the rule of 3<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Staying well means eating well.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span>Visualize a peace sign on your plate at meals, fill one third with lean protein, the second with a quality carbohydrate, and the third with fruits or veggies (heavy on those dark leafy greens, please!).<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span>Choose at least 2 different types of foods for snacks.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">2. Give yourself a time-out<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Make sure your children are safe, then find a quiet place you can be alone.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span>Shut the door, and take 3 minutes to yourself.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span>Breathe!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">3. Air out the house<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Open the windows and let the stuffiness out.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0 <\/span>And turn on your kitchen exhaust fan for at least ten minutes every day. It&#8217;s an easy way to clear out dust, allergens, chemical buildup from common household cleaners, and even the pollutants we carry in on our clothes and shoes from outdoors.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">4. Schedule playdates<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Kids aren&#8217;t the only ones who need to have fun is a motto of sorts for Olinda Reynaud of Richmond, Virginia, mom of Evan and Mallory, 8 and 5. &#8220;Once a month, I have a happy-hour date with my girlfriends, and no kids are allowed.&#8221; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">5. Let your mind wander<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">&#8220;When my two kids were young, I used the daily crossword in the paper to unwind,&#8221; says Karen Zager, Ph.D., a New York City psychologist. &#8220;Focusing on finding the right words helped me let go of the day&#8217;s tensions.&#8221; Other moms swear by physical activities like knitting or gardening.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">6. Make workouts sacred<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">We all know regular exercise helps the heart, bones, and mind stay strong \u00e2\u20ac\u201d if you do it often enough. <span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span>Of course, you needn&#8217;t join a gym. Trade childcare with a neighbor, or jot down your workout slots on the calendar so your husband knows when he&#8217;ll be on duty. If you treat workouts as important health appointments, you&#8217;re more likely to keep them.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">7. Go for the green<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Don&#8217;t underestimate the power of a tree! <span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span>Nature is good for you, says Frances Kuo, Ph.D., psychology professor and nature researcher at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. &#8220;People have a greater sense of well-being the more they are in touch with nature. There&#8217;s even evidence that people recover from surgery faster if they have a view of trees instead of something like a brick wall.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">8. Get into the groove<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Who doesn&#8217;t love listening to favorite songs from high school? Turns out it can be good for you, too. &#8220;It transports your mind back by triggering the neural patterns that were originally stimulated at the happy event,&#8221; says Barbara Reuer, Ph.D., a San Diego music therapist. &#8220;This can lower the stress hormones that sometimes make us sick.&#8221; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">9. Just (don&#8217;t) do it<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">When you&#8217;ve had it with all your to-do&#8217;s, try a do-nothing day \u00e2\u20ac\u201d or afternoon. I buy some magazines and rent the kids a DVD, make popcorn, and order in Chinese food or pizza. No laundry, no phone calls, no playdates, and no errands \u00e2\u20ac\u201d it&#8217;s a mini-vacation! <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">10. Turn errands into exercise<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">&#8220;I always look for an active way to do them,&#8221; says Selene Yeager of Emmaus, Pennsylvania, and mom of Juniper, age 3. &#8220;I put on my backpack and ride my bike with my daughter to the store. Sometimes we drop off library books, pick up milk and bread, even grab a frozen treat; it becomes a fun adventure rather than a tedious round of errands.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">11. Get enough shut-eye<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">There is plenty of evidence to show that sleep deprivation hinders a whole slew of things, including concentration, memory, cognitive function, and immunity. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">12. Rent a comedy<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Funny and uplifting movies can make you feel better \u00e2\u20ac\u201d laughing is said to boost serotonin, the feel-good hormone in your brain. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\">13. Jump-start your energy<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">If you&#8217;re yawning at midday, take two minutes to go up and down a flight of stairs. No stairs? Walk around the block or your office building. Such short bursts burn calories, enhance your mental clarity, and help you relax.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">14. Benefit from blooms<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Feeling frazzled? Treat yourself to flowers. Researchers at Kansas State University discovered that flowers actually work as a pain reliever; they think that the bright colors may stimulate our brains to produce serotonin and other good-mood hormones. Flowery fragrances are also thought to chase away the blues.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">15. Act happy<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">&#8230;even if you have to fake it. &#8220;When I&#8217;m crabby, I make a point of being nice to someone I don&#8217;t know \u00e2\u20ac\u201d the supermarket cashier, say \u00e2\u20ac\u201d and I always feel better,&#8221; says Trudy Miller. Optimists are less likely to die from heart attack, stroke, or other cardiovascular problems than pessimists, say Dutch researchers, who speculate that a sunny disposition helps protect the immune system.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">16. Refocus on food<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Don&#8217;t think in terms of &#8220;bad&#8221; food, or depriving yourself. New York City nutritionist Elisa Zied, a mom of two, has a more positive approach: &#8220;If I&#8217;m thinking about chocolate, I run a mental check on what I haven&#8217;t had yet. If it&#8217;s fruit, veggies, or something whole grain, I&#8217;ll go for that first, and I may still have room for the less nutritious candy.&#8221; <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">17. Dump out your purse<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">You may still have 50 zillion things to do, but less junk to sift through lifts a mental load \u00e2\u20ac\u201d and your aching shoulders will thank you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">18. Turn your car into a bookmobile<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Rebecca Jaffe, a doctor and a mom of two, Joshua, 10, and Rachel, 8, in Chadds Ford, Pennsylvania, listens to books on tape during her daily commute. &#8220;It makes my car seem like a retreat,&#8221; says Jaffe. She also listens to books on tape with her children as a way of unwinding together.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS;\"><span style=\"color: #008080;\"><span class=\"Heading2Char\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 14.0pt;\">19. Stretch it out<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">&#8220;When my two-year-old daughter is occupied, I grab a few minutes for this move,&#8221; says Janice Gates, a yoga instructor in San Anselmo, California:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul style=\"margin-top: 0in;\" type=\"disc\">\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">Lie on your back with your legs up against a wall, so your body&#8217;s in an L shape. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">Close your eyes and take slow, deep breaths. <\/span><\/li>\n<li class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list .5in;\"><span style=\"font-family: Trebuchet MS; font-size: x-small;\">Try to maintain the pose for 5 to 15 minutes to ease muscle tension and replenish energy.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You can wash your hands and take your multivitamin every day, but that&#8217;s not always enough to keep your body and mind humming. 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