{"id":846,"date":"2009-04-27T09:24:02","date_gmt":"2009-04-27T16:24:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=846"},"modified":"2009-11-27T18:25:40","modified_gmt":"2009-11-28T01:25:40","slug":"the-best-kept-secret-about-school-success","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/?p=846","title":{"rendered":"The Best-Kept Secret About School Success"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\">\n<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><strong><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">I won&#8217;t keep you in suspense: the secret is the &#8220;fun factor.&#8221; Put simply, kids will work tirelessly if the work is gratifying\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d that is, if it&#8217;s fun! That doesn&#8217;t mean all play and little work leads to academic success; far from it. What it does mean is that each child&#8217;s own perspective about what is fun or interesting (and not fraught with stress) has a direct effect on how hard she is likely to work at assigned tasks.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">There are undoubtedly some children who love taking tests to measure their abilities and academic achievement. But the vast majority don&#8217;t thrive on such challenges, especially when they sense the second-hand anxiety of adults in their midst\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d teachers who worry about being blamed for kids&#8217; poor performances, and parents whose self-respect is too often on the line. Teaching to the tests, so prevalent in the current academic environment, will fail to capitalize on <strong>school achievement&#8217;s best ally\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d kids&#8217; own eagerness to learn<\/strong> about the things that intrigue them.<\/p>\n<p>There is little challenge to policymakers, teachers, and parents from children who just plain love it all, love to read, love to write,\u00c2\u00a0love math,\u00c2\u00a0love to please. But for those children who are not meeting expectations in the core subjects,\u00c2\u00a0the current prescription\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d to narrow the curriculum and focus exclusively on reading and math\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d may be the turnoff of all turnoffs. Doing more and more drills, <strong>spending all day every day doing stuff that is dull at best, is not the way to improve achievement<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>This doesn&#8217;t apply only to children in school. Let&#8217;s look at what modern psychology has found to be the motivating factor <em>par excellence<\/em> for people of all ages, talents, and interests.\u00c2\u00a0Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihaly has studied the question through close scrutiny of artists,\u00c2\u00a0athletes,\u00c2\u00a0and others who choose to work long and hard at perfecting their skills (often with little promise of external reward). He&#8217;s found a remarkable explanatory factor that he calls &#8220;flow,&#8221; or complete immersion in an activity. Put simply, people who love what they are doing will go on doing it beyond the point of total fatigue because it gives them total pleasure. Pursuing a passionate interest offers the feeling of &#8220;happiness.&#8221; In fact, it turns out that,\u00c2\u00a0contrary to popular thinking, being <strong>totally absorbed in a tough task has a much higher happiness rank<\/strong> than being free of responsibility. And there is nothing that matches the total absorption of a child or adult in an activity he or she loves.<\/p>\n<p>It follows, then, that our challenge with kids who are not achieving is to find the hook\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d the point of passionate interest that will draw them in.\u00c2\u00a0This means that <strong>we should not be narrowing school subject matter for poor achievers<\/strong>; in fact, we probably should be doing the opposite.\u00c2\u00a0Our most talented teachers have long known this. They wait\u00c2\u00a0and watch for the hook to bring an unsuccessful student into the fold. Maybe a child&#8217;s favorite activity is fishing with Grandpa, something his teacher discovers in time spent listening to and getting to know him. Then why not find books at his reading level about fishing? Why not translate math problems into challenges about whether a fish meets the legal size requirement? Teachers&#8217; best clues to the hook for each child are likely to emerge during &#8220;specials&#8221; or social studies, maybe even in a shop class or during an assembly of guest musicians or jugglers. Field trips of all sorts are rich with opportunities to find those hooks.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri; font-size: small;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">Above all, adults need to <strong>find something that each child can feel successful at<\/strong>, sometimes a classroom job that may involve some easily accomplished reading or math. But don&#8217;t cut out history for the 3rd grader who is fascinated by the Second World War.\u00c2\u00a0Don&#8217;t rob the artistically inclined child of a lesson in mural-making or a trip to a children&#8217;s art museum. Bring hands-on gardening into a science unit that might incidentally also involve both math and reading. Whether or not the basic subjects are involved, <strong>being able to pursue genuine interests can rejuvenate kids to do the less exciting work <\/strong>that they still must master.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">\u00c2\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNoSpacing\" style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt;\"><span style=\"color: black; mso-bidi-font-size: 11.0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-bidi-theme-font: minor-latin;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Calibri;\">As a parent, you can be an enormous help by encouraging your child&#8217;s interests and talents.\u00c2\u00a0Acknowledge them, admire them, and discuss them with teachers. Who knows your child&#8217;s particular passions better than you?\u00c2\u00a0So don&#8217;t hold back, thinking that a fascination with horses or submarines is not a worthy subject for school. It is the &#8220;flow&#8221; experienced in pursuing those interests that hooks kids on learning for life.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c2\u00a0 I won&#8217;t keep you in suspense: the secret is the &#8220;fun factor.&#8221; Put simply, kids will work tirelessly if the work is gratifying\u00c2\u00a0\u00e2\u20ac\u201d that is, if it&#8217;s fun! That doesn&#8217;t mean all play and little work leads to academic success; far from it. What it does mean is that each child&#8217;s own perspective about [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,10,13,66],"tags":[303,389],"class_list":["post-846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anyage","category-information","category-school-success","category-self-esteem","tag-parenting-info","tag-school-success"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=846"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3043,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/846\/revisions\/3043"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcgirl.net\/mom\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}